The Bitter Apostate: Why Are Ex-Jehovah’s Witnesses So Angry?
Every now and then, someone asks why ex-Jehovah’s Witnesses seem so bitter. So wounded. So angry. Maybe they studied at some point, or have a very…
“Feed your faith, starve your doubts?” It sounds noble—until you realize what it’s really protecting. Not truth. Just the existing narrative.
If your faith were in a flat Earth, feeding it while avoiding evidence wouldn’t lead you to truth. It would just keep you from seeing the lie.
People start questioning when something feels off. Despite dire warnings that Satan will slither into their minds the moment they look, despite the horror stories about “drinking apostate poison,” they still search—because conscience doesn’t shut down on command.
You can’t “make the truth your own” if you’re never allowed to honestly ask what the truth is. So ask.
The Governing Body calls themselves “imperfect men” and admit they’re not divinely inspired. So why must you treat their every directive as if it is? If they were wrong—how would you even know?
Truth welcomes scrutiny. Control doesn’t. Anyone who says thinking for yourself is dangerous isn’t protecting you. They’re protecting their power over you.
This is PIMQ: Physically In, Mentally Questioning. You’re still in the Kingdom Hall… but your mind is starting to look for the door.
And that? That takes guts. Mad respect. Maybe some of these thoughts will help.
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